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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

3 Things to Maintain Attraction in a Long-Term Relationship
When the chase ends and you have finally caught one another, how do you keep the attraction alive? 1. Take some things said with a pinch of salt.
By Billi Fox8 years ago in Humans
Scissors
Everyone has had their share of toxic relationships. They are as common as going to the grocery store nowadays. Honestly, it takes an emotionally strong person to see them for what they are, and remove themselves from them.
By Chelsea Winona8 years ago in Humans
A Letter to the Heartbroken
This letter was never written with pen and paper for the person it was intended for, and I don't think I will end up sharing it with the individual described, as we are not as close as we used to be. But it felt right to share, and I hope that at the very least that it helps get you through whatever it is that is coming up next in your corner of the Universe.
By Delilah Jayde8 years ago in Humans
Confirmation Bias
I can’t believe how much my relationship has changed, we talk and laugh so much more now. We are both way less snappy at each other, and we seem to enjoy being with each other so much more now. Even he said the other day that everything feels easier now.
By Lara L8 years ago in Humans
Finding a Mate
Everyone dreams of finding someone, and falling in love, and getting married (well, at least I do), and they want the babies-in-the-cradle type of life. Well, that is getting harder and harder to find in this day and age.
By Destiny Smalls8 years ago in Humans
The Art of Communicating as a Couple
You come home from a long day of work, the garbage wasn't taken out, there are dishes everywhere, the entire apartment looks like a bunch of chimps came in just to destroy the place, and it smells so very, very bad. Sounds horrid, right? There's more, though. Your partner has been home all gosh darn day sitting playing video games, watching TV, or napping.
By Jae Heide8 years ago in Humans
His Words Say "I Love You," His Actions Say "I Don't"
His words say "I love you" but his actions say "I don't." Ladies, we have all been there at one point or another in our lives and let's be honest... it SUCKS. He sweet talks you, makes you feel like you are the most important person in his world, but never actually SHOWS it. Then when he is done playing his game it is like you no longer exist; he has moved on to another woman and all those words and promises meant absolutely nothing. So why do we keep falling for it? Why is it so hard for us to tell when a man doesn't mean it when he claims that he loves us? Because men like that have been playing this game long enough; they have learned how to keep it going for longer than it ever should have been allowed to. Here are a few of the reasons I know of we will ignoring the red flags screaming at us " HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU" and keep going hoping that we are wrong and it's all in our heads, that he actually does love us and we are just being paranoid.
By Mylyn Cal8 years ago in Humans
F*ck the F*ckboys. Top Story - March 2018.
It’s no secret that our generation is rife with romantic differences to that of our parents and—even more so—to our grandparents’.
By O B8 years ago in Humans
Love the Right Way
We’ve all fallen for someone who isn’t right for us. It doesn’t mean that they’re horrible human beings or that they’re doing it on purpose, but it doesn’t stop it from hurting as much as it does. The question is, how do you know you’ve fallen for the wrong person? They don’t love you back! That’s how. Just because you love someone doesn’t mean that they must love you back. Because they don’t feel the same way doesn’t mean you should hate them, things don’t work out sometimes and that’s OKAY! However, there are different ways to know when they don’t love you. You shouldn’t be wasting your time on people who don’t love you the way you want or need to be loved. Here are some ways to know when someone might now feel the same way, some red flags:
By KP8 years ago in Humans
Avoid Asking This Question When You're On A Date
I remember going out once with this guy I went to school with back in college where we went for a quiet dinner and then out to play billiards afterwards. The conversation was pretty good, and we were just getting to know one another so there was lots to talk about. We were casually chatting about the kinds of people we had been seeing and dating when he proceeded to ask:
By Delilah Jayde8 years ago in Humans
The Cut Off
Welcome to 2018! The year where you learn to love yourself more than you love anyone else. More than that man that uses you. What? Yeah. Him. He's using you.
By Art Out Loud8 years ago in Humans
Just an Article about Sharing Personal Stories about Relationships
Now, there are all types of articles about relationship advice, and the main source that people get if from is well, social media or all those gossip magazines. We're exposed to it at such a young age, from movies and television shows, to books and many other things, but from all those mainstream things, nobody really, well, tells us their story. And maybe I am willing to share my stories from the five serious relationships that I've been in during my twenty one-ish years of life.
By Carly Mackay8 years ago in Humans