taboo
A look at words, acts, and fetishes that are often unjustly considered taboo.
What Men Can't Do At Home
Nearly all of my clients would talk to me about their personal or private “normal” lives to one degree or another. I have heard many complaints of what I have come to call “reluctant” sex. This is a position most wives have found themselves in. This double-edged sword of spoken and unspoken rules of our culture dictate that a wife and mother cannot also be a vixen. The two things just don’t mix. I experienced this in my first marriage, which lasted for eighteen years. When raising children and being consumed with domestic responsibilities, we women put sex pretty much on the bottom of the list. My first husband and I had very regular sex. With that being said, as I learned more about my sexuality through my second marriage, I was able to look back at the first marriage with more objectivity and understanding.
By Amelie Peyton Cash9 years ago in Filthy
Understanding Sexual Obsessions and Addictions
“Sexual compulsions and PRDs are complex psychiatric disorders therefore exact causes are not known, although there are many theories. Whether they represent an addiction, obsessive-compulsive disorder, impulse control disorder, or a pattern of hypersexualism is still a matter of controversy. Some have argued that since these disorders represent an ongoing pattern of uncontrolled sexual behaviour, they should be viewed as an addiction because like substance abuse, these consist of a pathological relationship with a mood-altering experience. Others have argued against this idea, instead describing paraphilias and PDRs as symptoms of an underlying obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).” - M. Williams, PhD brainphysics.com
By Carol Edwards9 years ago in Filthy
BDSM Terms You Need To Know
BDSM isn't just a fetish; it's a community, a lifestyle, and a concept. Really, it's what you make of it. Among community members in the BDSM world, there are a number of terms that you may have heard that don't really make sense. This is because a lot of BDSM communities basically have their own lingo to discuss fetish matters.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart9 years ago in Filthy
Threesomes
Most women find the idea of sharing the man they love with another woman infuriating. It brings out feelings of jealousy, anger and straight up “I’m going to beat a bitch’s ass if she touches my man” feelings but some women find that sharing their man with another woman is exotic, titillating and a huge turn on. I am a woman that is extremely turned on by watching her man have sex with another woman. I fantasize about it during sex and really enjoy it when it happens in real life. My husband and I have been married for fifteen years and we have had a handful of threesomes throughout our marriage and each time it has been one of the best experiences we have had together sexually.
By Jackie Sagastume9 years ago in Filthy
Are There Rules to This?
We had had sex multiple times this particular day. No one had knocked on the door to attempt a sale. The neighbors hadn't come to let us know one of our tires had looked a bit flat. Our phones were on silent from the night before, yet neither of us had received a call or a text the entire day anyway.
By Art Creeps9 years ago in Filthy
How To Discuss BDSM With Your Partner
If you're curious about kink or are a major fan of it, you're probably well-aware of how hard it can be to talk about BDSM with your partner. It can be embarrassing to talk about that side of your sexuality. You might be worried that your partner will think you're a freak for it. In some cases, you might even get worried about your partner having a chip on their shoulder after you talk about it.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart9 years ago in Filthy
Ask Wendy: About BDS&M
I am intrigued by BDS&M upon inventing my sex toy and going into the underground world of all things sexual and erotic. Having the perception that only hardcore, biker types were involved in this fascinating underworld that I have arrived in, I was presently surprised by the mundane types that participate in this lifestyle. From every walk of life, every shape and size, sexual orientation, and occupation, the BDS&M lifestyle community comes from. Some actors are hardcore, some enjoy a softer approach, and some people live it 24/7. For those not yet exposed to the mental aspect of this fetish, www.fetlife.com is an amazing resource to learn more about it.
By Wendy Adams9 years ago in Filthy
Why (and Where) to Have Sex in Public
Several months ago, I was walking on 42nd Street in New York City with Ron. Ron is a lawyer–as a hobby, I'd argue, because his real occupation is sex. Ron is a highly accomplished voyeur, and knows more about sex than anyone I know. As we were approaching the corner of Seventh Ave., Ron put his hand on my arm and said in a low voice so as not to draw any attention, "Look in that car parked there by the curb. There are two people fucking in the car."
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
